Learning to let go........

Learning to let go…….Habits are said to be the driving force behind the reason why we find it hard to let go. Fearing to lose what one never had in the first place is harder than fooling around with a burning match stick while waddling in a pond of gasoline!

The very same spark that lit your first romance can be as destructive as an open flame to a moth.

The very same principles you try to adhere to can lead you to live a life lived only to wade off critics who take plight in seeing you try to go through life without faltering.

Imperfections are merely perfections defined by beings not looking for what you can offer or what you want to offer…

Why regret when you can learn from what you couldn’t achieve…

Why cry when you can laugh it off and thank her/him for tutoring you in life’s ever changing syllabus of love, hurt, pain and reconciliation, backstabbing, trust and loyalty?

Who said we get only a single shot at life when you are able to take more than a million breaths in a year…?

We live, we love, we lose out….holding on is never an option we choose to take…it is in our genes, we can not cut holding on out of lives, hearts and minds…..we can not deny pain to play it’s role, we can not deny another being to find what she/he didn’t find in you or me…..we can not stop living after being crushed.

Facing and accepting reality shouldn’t be hard or painful right?

Life is as simple as you make it to be right…..tell me then, what is simplicity when the driving forces behind sustaining life are as complicated as a jigsaw puzzle to a 1 year old child or  ?

How simple is it to forget how to forget and move on….?

How simple is simplicity when each and everyday becomes harder than the previous one…?

Expectations………we all have them, we al fear them……we all wish everything could be as what we expect it to be……?

Would life be what it is without them…….would you love as much as you do if you were never expected to act or carry yourself in a certain or particular way….?

What’s life without stumbling every now and then….?

What is life without mishaps and downfalls….?

What is life without doubt…….?

What is life without belief………?

I believe in Christ, I believe in God…I believe in forgiveness and a new start……....!